Being married means you can't flirt with anyone else, no matter how hot or seducing that person is (Hey, you're someone's property now!) ...
It means you'll be having your biggest challenges on changing behavior, habits, and personal dreams..
It means you're ready to kill your "ME" ego, and giving birth to what you called the "US" ego.. (Trust me, there's no "You and Me" stuff. There should be only "US" if you really want your marriage works).
Means that you'll have to change your bed size from single to queen/king size then share it with someone else.. (Prepare your self for sleepless nights if he snores or she kicks when she sleep)..
It means that you're never feel alone anymore because you'll always have someone to talk to, to ask for opinions, or just to yell at..
It also means that you're getting your self a partner to walk together with on this bumpy road of life..
To wipe your tears or just to laugh with..
Marriage means a lifetime practice about loyalty and having a private lesson for a lifetime on the "trust" subject..
Its not always full with happiness.. It can be filled with few tears and sad feelings.. That's why you (together with your husband/wife) need to have a strong will to face whatever "come what may" situations..
Being married means both of you must have courage, knowledge, patience, forgiveness, trust, good communications skill, and love.
And that's what being married is all about.
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